Releasing Love Costs Obedience

•October 13, 2017 • Leave a Comment

I always pray where to go on ministry trips.  Years ago the Holy Spirit had me start taking prophetic love tours.  During these tours, the Spirit of the Lord will instruct me where to go, when to turn, and which restaurants and hotels to stop at.  Often I have a general direction when I start as to where I will go and sometimes we get on the road and simply drive for 3-11 days at a time.

I have taken 11 prophetic love tours where we go and love on the homeless, prophesy on the streets and go to love on God’s servants.  I live in Michigan, and we have traveled as far west as Las Vegas and south to Louisiana.  We have done an East Coast tour and started out our first love tour in Wisconsin.  We have traveled far and wide to make the love of Jesus known.

Three years ago my ministry was forever changed as I traveled three short hours away and went to love on well known Christian businessmen and ministers.  As I went to this meeting to simply be love and release the prophetic over their individual lives, I came away feeling more love than I even poured out.  These men oozed out such a love of the Father that I went on a three-day solitude retreat with the Lord afterward in which I birthed my ministry of love.

Everything changed from that day forward.   I had already known the intimate love of the Father, but now I was going to make it a mission that everyone who came in contact with my ministry felt His abundant love.  I changed my ministry mission from healing and deliverance to releasing the love and power of God.  When we release the love and power of God, healing and deliverance will occur, so now I can release both missions into people’s lives.

I have just arrived back from my 11th love tour.  My assignment from the Holy Spirit was to go down and love on an Apostle in Maryland.  He wasn’t having any problems or feeling discouraged.  In the natural, nothing was going on that He needed an uplifting experience.  The Father simply wanted this man to be loved upon.  Everyone needs love.  Everyone needs to experience the vastness of God’s love.

Once again, like in my meeting above, God blew me away.  As I went there to be love, I felt like I got more love back.  Sometimes my saying is, “they out loved me.”  What I am trying to express is that even though I poured out every ounce of love I had, I felt so much more love back.  Seven days later I am still basking in His weighty presence and great love.

Obedience costs us something.  The obedience we had to offer God was our time, finances and family.  We had to give up our agenda for His instructions.  I love to preach.  The pulpit is where I come alive!  I love sharing the Gospel and releasing prophetically whatever the Spirit has for each meeting.  I love declaring and seeing the bondages break off of people from the platform.  However, God told me, this tour was about being love and that I could do more for His Kingdom by going here and just being love than I could if I was invited to speak at this event.  I can’t wait to get to heaven and see the Kingdom impact one simple act of being love and obedience brought forth.

Why don’t you take some time to pray and seek the Holy Spirit for your next instruction, whether big or small and be obedient to take that action to advance the Kingdom!


Goodness of God

•October 9, 2017 • Leave a Comment

The goodness of His love overwhelms me. It engulfs me. The weightiness of His presence consumes me. There is such peace in the atmosphere it is indescribable. The magnificence of His beauty is hard to take in. All alone in His presence is where I want to be. He is my treasure, my love, my priority. He alone is everything to me.

The goodness of God saturates the earth but seldom do we take time to feel it and experience it. We are caught up in life’s busyness.

The fragrance of His presence, I can smell the scent of His beauty! It is what I long for and that for which I thirst. He is so wonderful when we come into that place of rest. God longs for us to be with Him. Won’t you linger in His presence?

Our Father is an all-consuming fire. He can consume us with His fragrance, love, and fire when we allow ourselves to be removed from the world and put our attentions and affections on Him. He will give us so much more than we ask or fathom. God longs to be with you!

I am saturated with His love, and it feels good, the weightiness of His presence consumes me, it keeps coming. He desires us to walk in that weightiness so that people are healed, delivered and miracles are released by His glory. Why can’t we be like Peter who when His shadow feel on people they were miraculously released of their affliction? Why can’t we carry that same glory? We can!
Entering into the presence of God and allowing Him to linger upon us and not being in a hurry to get through our day will lead us into divine encounters. I want to go where He goes. I don’t want one moment to not have a prophetic or Kingdom aspect about it. Every appointment should be a prophetic appointment, but we have to be intentional. Intentional to rest and go into that secret place where He can lavish His great love upon you.

Can you give up your agenda for His? Can you linger in His lavish love? Can you get so full of Him that the scent of His fragrance oozes from your pours? Love on Him so that He can love on you, and in return, you have lots of His love to ooze on others.

Kathy DeGraw is the founder of DeGraw Ministries –

It is your problem!

•August 22, 2017 • Leave a Comment

Racism issues have been ignored simply because “It is not my issue.” If it’s not our issue, then whose issue is it?

Racism is our problem. It is everyone’s problem when our brothers and sisters in Christ are being hurt, abused, rejected and offended.

Our brothers and sisters in Christ every day are being treated unfairly. It is not just a black-and-white issue. There are Hispanics, Cubans, Italians and people from other races being treated unfairly. Comments such as, “Why don’t you go back to your own country until you learn to speak English” or “You are taking away jobs from Americans” are signs that racism still exists.

Scripture clearly tells us to love and live in unity!

“Now I ask you, brothers, by the name of our Lord Jesus Christ, that you all speak in agreement and that there be no divisions among you. But be perfectly joined together in the same mind and in the same judgment.” (1 Cor. 1:10, MEV).
“Behold, how good and how pleasant it is for brothers to dwell together in unity!” (Ps. 133:1, MEV)
“If you fulfill the royal law according to the Scripture, ‘You shall love your neighbor as yourself,’ you are doing well. But if you show partiality, you are committing sin and are convicted by the law as sinners” (James 2:8-9, MEV).
“Whoever says he is in the light but hates his brother is in darkness even until now. Whoever loves his brother lives in the light, and in him there is no cause for stumbling. But whoever hates his brother is in darkness, and walks in darkness, and does not know where he is going, because the darkness has blinded his eyes” (1 John 2:9-11, MEV).
“A new commandment I give to you, that you love one another, even as I have loved you, that you also love one another” (John 13:34, MEV).
“He has made from one blood every nation of men to live on the entire face of the earth, having appointed fixed times and the boundaries of their habitation” (Acts 17:26, MEV).
Ask yourself, “Am I willing to assist in the fight against racism or am I myself racist?”

One of the ways people have become racist is due to emotional wounds that have not been healed. Judgment and criticism build up and past hurts and wounds against an ethnicity have not been healed. People who have been hurt or ridiculed as a child, teenagers who have been abused by a gang or racial group different from theirs and women who have been sexually assaulted by a person of another race all need healing.

Racism partially exists because we have had conflict in our life with a person or group of another race. Instead of searching for the healing, we need to overcome those issues, we form bitterness, resentment and other unhealthy emotions towards people of different ethnicities.

Racism is a learned emotion. We have been taught racism by our cultural, economic status, region we live in, people of influence in our lives and our parents. However, just as generational curses can be broken off of our life, so can racism.

Our first step is to acknowledge when we have been racist and to repent and ask the Lord to forgive us and move forward in love. God is a God of love, and He has called us to love all people.

“So God created man in His own image; in the image of God He created him; male and female He created them” (Gen. 1:27).

Individually, we can do this:

Change our behavior patterns and habits by not hanging onto our purses or belongings when we see a person of a different race come into our immediate area.
When in an elevator, instead of being uncomfortable when a person of another race enters, say hello and be nice.
When out in public, be friendly; don’t avoid a cashier line, salesperson or service personnel because they are of another race.
Embrace diversity. Embrace who they are as an individual and don’t group them into the same category as someone who you may have encountered challenges with.
Encourage unity by doing these things:

When such discussions come up, present yourself as an ambassador of Christ and make sure the words out of your mouth are edifying and not racist in nature.
Inform your children about diversity and multiculturalism, expose them to different ethnic groups and encourage them to be friends within their own race and other races.
Let them know that there are no limits on who they can be friends with, and model the example yourself for them.
Watch the words that come out of your mouth as a parent, leader in your community and follower in Christ.
Search yourself for any hurts or wounds and seek out healing.
Root out and gut out any and all racism that may be inside of you.
When we get to heaven; we will be no longer live in these fleshly suits. No race will be marked by outside pigments of our skin and the culture from which we came—no racism, all of us having changed into colorless.

In the Lord’s Prayer it says, “On Earth as it is in heaven.” Why don’t we do our part to help heaven manifest on Earth when it comes to the fight against racism?

Kathy DeGraw is the founder of DeGraw Ministries a prophetic ministry releasing the love and power of God, igniting people in the prophetic and releasing people from emotional bondage. She’s passionate about teaching people the power of prayer through declaring. She is the founder of Change into Colorless, an anti-racism corporation and co-pastors a church. Kathy is the author of Spiritual Warfare Declarations, A Worship Woven Life, Time to Set the Captives Free, and Flesh, Satan or God. Connect with Kathy at

The ugly element of racism

•August 18, 2017 • Leave a Comment

I wasn’t always passionate about racial issues. In fact for three years, I, being Caucasian, dated a full-blooded Navaho Indian and did not realize that I was racist against him.

There were signs that I was racist, but I did not truly see it as being racist, but simply as a couple of issues that bothered me. I remember we both would always correct people when they thought he was Mexican. It wasn’t done as informative to let the person know what he was. It was done more as, “Please don’t label him a Mexican.”

I remember being bothered by the fact that if we eventually got married and had children, that our children would be dark skinned, and I would have to explain to everyone their ethnicity. I didn’t realize until later in life I was racist against the very person I was in love with.

A few years ago I started an anti-racism corporation, it was then I discovered through talking to people that we all have pockets of racism in us that need to be rooted out. One of the issues we can have is that we don’t want our children to marry outside of their own race or even have cross racial friendships. When we are limiting our children to hang out with children like themselves, we have racism inside of us that needs to be removed. When we impose these thoughts and pass them along to our children we are creating racial tendencies and not extending love to all people, all nations, all cultures and all races.

I remember growing up hearing people say, “Why are those people coming to our country and becoming doctors?” I would hear people complaining that all the good surgeons were of another race. People would state it like it was a bad thing. The truth is they were racist and judgmental. Instead of being jealous and racist, we should be thanking them for the medical work they do to save our lives and fix what is wrong with our bodies.

Another common statement is, “If they are going to come to our country, then they should speak our language.” We should be thankful we live in a country that gives people freedom and is multicultural, instead of judging that they can’t speak our language.

I heard this again recently. There were people speaking Spanish in a store and when another customer walked out he looked at us and said, “They should speak English.” That is a racial remark that we need to help prevent and eliminate.

What about being a woman on an elevator and an African-American or Hispanic man steps on the elevator and you clutch your purse tighter? Do you clutch your purse tighter if a man of the same race as you would step on the elevator? We make racial acts without even knowing what we are doing.

We develop similar tendencies by being parked at a traffic light and a person of a different ethnicity is on the sidewalk and we reach over to lock our door. What about when you see a group of young number of a different race walking together in the city or mall; what are your reactions and thoughts that start plaguing your mind?

Racism can exist when you were treated badly by a person of another race. When a person is raped, stolen from, has a doctor or business transaction that goes bad, the next person they deal with from the same race could be treated unfairly. When we are offended by a person of another race, we could have difficulties entering into a relationship with a person of that same race.

What happens is that the person in that same race as the person that offended us could remind us of the bad experience we had by outward appearance, mannerism or language. When this happens, we could avoid a person of that race, because they remind us of the person, which is racism.

In order to be love and serve Christ and people we need to self-examine. Spend time in the presence of the Holy Spirit and ask Him to reveal and bring to your mind any racist tendencies you need to change. As these things are revealed, repentance is the first step we should take. Asking our heavenly Father to forgive us for these thoughts and actions.

As we recognize where we have racist areas in our lives, we can root them out and start being love to all people. Jesus loves all races. We have Jesus living inside of us; therefore, we are capable of the same love He gave. Will you put yourself aside and any past confrontations you had with a person of another race to truly be love?

Kathy DeGraw is the founder of DeGraw Ministries, a ministry releasing the love and power of God. She is also the founder of Change Into Colorless, an anti-racism corporation. She travels hosting conferences, teaching schools and evangelistic love tours. Kathy enjoys writing and is the author of several books that educate, empower and equip people, including A Worship Woven Life and Flesh, Satan or God. Connect with Kathy at

Strip Your Flesh

•August 14, 2017 • Leave a Comment

Prophetic Release – It’s a flesh stripping season ~
God the Father is calling people back to His Son, Jesus

Prophetically I am seeing and hearing that our Father is in a season of flesh stripping with His people. The Father (God) wants to bring us back to His Son, Jesus. God is calling His people to put aside their differences, selfish ambitions, wrong motives and desires and satisfying the flesh to come in a deeper more meaningful relationship with Him.

We have gone astray as the body of Christ putting social media, computer addictions and meaningless internet surfing above our relationship with Christ. We have set before ourselves a computer/phone addiction and have idolized the approval of men through social media likes and followers above seeking Jesus in the secret place. We have infiltrated our once private secret place time with our phone ringing and text notifications. The place where we once found solace is now filled with distraction as we attempt to enter into the throne room and wonder why we aren’t hearing from the Father when our attention wasn’t on Him fully in the first place.

God is calling us to lay aside our other lovers for the love of Jesus Christ to infiltrate us. Our priorities have come out of alignment. We have added to our once analytical minds with the wondering thoughts of what we absorbed in social media and internet surfing. Our minds lag in the news and get distracted by what happened instead of taking that information as a call to intercession.

What was once our uninterrupted secret place time has now been infiltrated with what we just read on a newsfeed line before our prayer time. It leaves our thoughts back on what happened instead of focusing forward on what we should be interceding for and trying to connect spirit to Spirit to the living God.

I hear stories around the U.S. right now of people saying they’re in a hard flesh stripping or they want to quit the ministry. The fact is the hard they have encountered is what they inflicted themselves, seeking approval in man and acceptance by constantly seeing how many people liked their post instead of knowing who they are in Christ. If our minds were so full of the Word of God, we would know our acceptance and identity comes from Him and would never need to seek the approval of man because we would know we have the applause of heaven!

Check out Kathy’s books that will assist you in flesh stripping at

Everyone struggles with some kind of fear, but through identification and life application you can be set free.

•June 20, 2017 • Leave a Comment

Fear is a tight grip the enemy attempts to put on us, in order to bind our mind and make us unfruitful and unproductive for the Kingdom. As fear grips us it causes us to think in a direction that our mind should not be focused. In order to break fear off of our lives, we must first recognize the components of fear.

Here are some of the ways we may respond to fear:
• Makes us numb.
• Prevents us from doing what the Lord wants.
• Distracts us.
• Prevents us from speaking about our faith.
• Prevents us from sleeping at night.
• Makes us think we are sick and are going to die.

Fear encompasses and binds us into thinking about what we fear. Fear pulls our mind and thoughts into thinking about the past or what could happen. Fear is torment. It is difficult when fear manifests to get your mind thinking in a positive direction and thinking on the things of God.
The root cause of fear ultimately is a lying spirit making you believe any of, but not limited to the following:

• You are going to get attacked being alone in a dark place.
• You are going to get in an accident if you turn down that road.
• You aren’t going to have enough money to pay rent.
• Your child, spouse or friend is lying to you.
• There is someone in your house.

“For though we walk in the flesh, we do not war according to the flesh. For the weapons of our warfare are not carnal but mighty in God for pulling down strongholds, casting down arguments and every high thing that exalts itself against the knowledge of God, bringing every thought into captivity to the obedience of Christ” (2 Cor. 10:3-5).

We can take our thoughts captive and conquer those lying spirits; the problem is that most often we don’t. When our mind gets captured and we start thinking things that are contrary to the word of God is when you should get up and get busy. Don’t sit and think and rot and stink. Get up and take authority over the attack!

I believe we can be delivered from all types of fear. “For God has not given us the spirit of fear, but of power and of love and of a sound mind,” (2 Tim. 1:7).

Here are some of the fears people experience:

• Heights.
• Spouse being unfaithful.
• Bridges or water.
• Spiders or snakes.
• Being alone.
• Darkness.
• Hearing noises in the house.
• Death for themselves or a loved one.
• Nightmares.
• Losing a job.

We don’t have to be afraid! There are many different ways fear can enter:
• Generational Curse.
• Soul tie to a person you are in relationship with.
• Near death experience such as drowning or a situation where you almost died.
• Trauma – An emotional and/or physical experience that was very traumatic or life changing.
• Accidents – any kind of motor vehicle accident.

Any of these incidents when not properly healed can lead us to be afraid of the thing the incident was related. Think of what you fear, and why you fear it, and ask the Holy Spirit to come in and heal the trauma related to that fear.
Fear is bondage and we all need to be released from that bondage no matter how simple or severe. We can live in freedom. Jesus came to set the captives free. If you don’t think you live in fear, what is your first reaction to any of the following situations:

• Your credit card statement arrives in the mail.
• Your spouse says, “I need to talk to you in private.”
• Your boss says, “Can I talk to you after work?”
• There is a snow storm coming or a tornado watch.
• You hear sirens go off and your teenager just left the house 5 minutes before.
• You see your spouse becoming close with someone of the opposite sex.
• You react negatively when something on your body hurts or is malfunctioning.

Instead of reacting in the negative, we need to react in the positive. We need to trust God will provide all our needs.
The word of God says, “Though an army may encamp against me, my heart shall not fear; though war may rise against me, in this I will be confident,” (Ps. 27:3). It says, “In this I will be confident.” Yes, something may rise against us, but we will not fear and we will be confident.

Our fear can come from people. We can have fear of not being accepted or fear of rejection. Fear that people are going to hurt us, not like our ideas or what we believe in. Our fear can come from what another person might think. We spend too much time wondering what other people think and in return it puts fear in us about how to act and react. Fear can be self-inflicted from our perception of what people think or the rejection we have suffered from our past relationships.

In Deuteronomy it mentions to go in and possess the land. We need to possess the land of our mind. We need to get violent and diligent in taking our thoughts captive. It says, “Possess the land.” The word possess is an action word. It means we have something to do about it. We have to get aggressive in our fight with the enemy and take back the territory he has stolen from us. If you want something, you go and fight for it. You get diligent about making it come to pass. I don’t know anything more important than possessing the land of our mind, so that we can have the freedom Christ intended us to have.
How do we apply this to daily living? We need to constantly be refocusing our minds. “Finally, brethren, whatever things are true, whatever things are noble, whatever things are just, whatever things are pure, whatever things are lovely, whatever things are of good report, if there is any virtue and if there is anything praiseworthy—meditate on these things,” (Phil. 4:8). Refocus your mind.

We need to take the thoughts captive and say, “No, I am not going to think that way.” Speak out loud and rebuke the enemy. Take authority over him and the thoughts that are coming into your mind. Speak out, “I rebuke that thought in Jesus’ name.” Speak Scripture over yourself. Speak life, truth and the great things of God into your mind.

You have to say, “No, I am not going to react that way.” You need to, “Get a grip on yourself.” We need to take the thought captive into the obedience of Christ. We need to bind our mind to the mind of Christ and think how He would think. It is a constant renewing of our minds. It is not easy. It will take some time, but you can conquer your thoughts.

How to overcome the behavior patterns, thoughts and habits of fear.
1. Take your authority over your mind and thoughts.
2. Speak out loud, “No, I am not taking that in.”
3. Say, “Go! In Jesus’ name.”
4. Direct your thoughts on another topic.
5. Get busy. Don’t sit and think and rot and stink.
6. Think positive.
7. Trust God.
8. Don’t react. Walk in the Spirit.
9. Get with God. Read, pray and worship.
10. Remember, you are made in Christ’s image – without fear!

Kathy DeGraw is the founder of DeGraw Ministries a prophetic ministry releasing the love and power of God, igniting people in the prophetic and releasing people from emotional bondage. She’s passionate about teaching people the power of prayer through declaring. Kathy is the author of Spiritual Warfare Declarations, A Worship Woven Life, Time to Set the Captives Free, and Flesh, Satan or God. Connect with Kathy at

Discovering the entry point to achieve freedom from strongholds

•June 19, 2017 • Leave a Comment

Emotional bondage is either self-inflicted, generational or caused by a trauma or incident in your life which was beyond your control. When an emotional stronghold has been established, it can be necessary to find the entry point or root cause in order to abolish that stronghold in our life. Inner healing is beneficial because it shows us how the emotional issue became a stronghold. By determining the root cause we are establishing new boundaries and walking out behavior patterns, habits and mind sets so that the repetitive cycle of emotional bondage and does not continually happen.

A practice you can use in discerning the root cause in yourself or another person is called time lining. It is finding the sin or the trauma that allowed the stronghold to enter. Emotional bondages usually enter through the act of another person such as; a spouse committing adultery, a car accident by a drunk driver, being raped or molested or severe, repeated emotional abuse. When these things happen to us, we don’t often see them as tragedies that will affect us for years to come. Through time lining we can identify what tragedy caused the current emotional issue you are suffering with and how to be healed from it.

In order to time line I ask a person (or evaluate yourself) what is the greatest thing holding them back from the fullness of God. As the person reveals an issue such as rejection, depression, abuse or any emotional ailment in which they haven’t been able to receive complete healing; I ask them when they first noticed this challenge in their life.

If they can narrow down an age for example of 13, I then asked them what happened at the age of 12, around that time frame. Try to determine if something happened prior to the incident to cause the fear, trauma or emotional ailment to manifest. If they can name a year or incident ask them again if they can think about anything earlier than that to make sure you have the absolute first occurrence.

In order to close the door to emotional trauma and root out the stronghold, the person must be walked through forgiving the abuser or the person who emotionally or physically hurt them. Once we walk a person through the forgiveness process and take authority over the spirit realm, even sometimes by casting out the demon associated with the trauma, the stronghold has been broken, and the person can start walking out their freedom.

Scriptures talk about people having issues for a period of years.

“Now He was teaching in one of the synagogues on the Sabbath. And behold, there was a woman who had a spirit of infirmity eighteen years, and was bent over and could in no way raise herself up. But when Jesus saw her, He called her to Him and said to her, ‘Woman, you are loosed from your infirmity.’ And He laid His hands on her, and immediately she was made straight and glorified God” (Luke 13:10-13).

This lady was bent over for 18 years, which means at some point she was not bent over. When you look at this infirmity, if she was bent over for 18 years, it means something must have happened in the year prior to cause this sickness to inflict her.

We see another example of a sickness for years with the lady of the blood issue.
“Now a certain woman had a flow of blood for twelve years and had suffered many things from many physicians. She had spent all that she had and was no better, but rather grew worse. When she heard about Jesus, she came behind Him in the crowd and touched His garment. For she said, “If only I may touch His clothes, I shall be made well.” Immediately the fountain of her blood was dried up, and she felt in her body that she was healed of the affliction. And Jesus, immediately knowing in Himself that power had gone out of Him, turned around in the crowd and said, “Who touched My clothes?” But His disciples said to Him, “You see the multitude thronging You, and You say, ‘Who touched Me?’ “And He looked around to see her who had done this thing. But the woman, fearing and trembling, knowing what had happened to her, came and fell down before Him and told Him the whole truth. And He said to her, “Daughter, your faith has made you well. Go in peace, and be healed of your affliction” (Mark 5:24-34).

Here again, this woman has a blood flow issue for 12 years. She had been to the doctors and spent all she had. Did any of the doctors look for a root cause or timeline the entry point? No, they didn’t. Obviously, this woman did not always have a blood issue. At one time she was whole and healed. Her faith healed her when she saw Jesus.

Be seeking the past you can remove the feelings you are experiencing in the present and the future. By time lining the entry point, you can go back and forgive anyone who hurt, offended, abused or rejected you and bring healing into your life. Spend some time in the presence of the Holy Spirit and invite him to search you and reveal to you things in your past that need to be let go of in order to walk out your full destiny and freedom in Christ.

Kathy DeGraw is the founder of DeGraw Ministries a prophetic ministry releasing the love and power of God, igniting people in the prophetic and releasing people from emotional bondage. She’s passionate about teaching people the power of prayer through declaring. She speaks at conferences and travels hosting evangelistic love tours. She has written her own prophetic and deliverance training manuals in order to assist other ministries. She is the founder of Change into Colorless, an anti-racism corporation and co-pastors a church. Kathy is the author of Spiritual Warfare Declarations, A Worship Woven Life, Time to Set the Captives Free, and Flesh, Satan or God. Connect with Kathy at